The first step of peace with yourself is acceptance.

jigar vyas
2 min readJan 24, 2021
Acceptance sets you free.

We all want to be happy and live our life like as we imagined in our childhood but it is the fact that 80% of people are not living the life which they wished for, we all want success in our life whether it is financially or personally. we all want to spend our day less stressed. our generation is most depressed and with full anxiety because there are a lot of things which are affected to us whether it is our choice or someone else choices is affecting us.

It’s time to accept the fact most of our life right now is the decision we make in the past. those our decision and yet somehow we manage to everything blame on others and that’s the worst thing we can do because we thought that we can fool our self that all these things happen to me is not my fault and we kinda move on with this thought but this type of things can never let you in peace because deep down we know that what we do is wrong and we also know whom to blame. I have done this many times and I now realize that it is not the answer. I know many of you also feel the same so I think here is the time.

The moment we accept our responsibility for everything in our life is the moment you gain the power to change anything in life. let’s face it whatever happens around us in career, family or financially it’s all our fault and our decision that we took and ended up here. We all have that fear we defeat anyone but we cannot defeat ourself and this is the time to get up and own our mistakes in order to make peace with the past. I think this is the only way to keep your head and heart at peace and it will lead you to a wonderful life. I know it’s not that easy as it seems because I have been facing these problems for like last 3 years but I think it is high time to accept.

So, whatever happened to me in the past I take full responsibility for that and I promised myself if there is anything bad happens to me in the future and I know that it is my decision that landed me here. I will face it because this little thing will give you courage otherwise we will keep running away with ourself and we cannot meet ourselves. make peace with yourself first and then everything around you will be at peace itself.

Accept and Move on that the only thing you lead this life as you want.

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